Some opinions are up for debate. These? Not so much.
Every Baker Has Their “Don’t Argue With Me” Opinions
Every baker has that one opinion they’ll defend no matter what. Mine just happens to come with a Grenadian accent.
These aren’t passing preferences. Some are set rules with absolutely no room for negotiation. Others have a little wiggle room — but not much. Every single one of them comes from family, from tradition, and from years of time spent in the kitchen learning what I actually believe about food.
Some of you will agree. Some of you — well, we’re going to have to agree to disagree. Because I’m standing firmly on these.
Fresh Nutmeg Will Always Win
If I have a whole nutmeg in the house, I’m reaching for the grater every single time. Not because ground nutmeg isn’t good, but because freshly grated nutmeg brings a warmth, a flavor, and a personality to a bake that the pre-ground version simply cannot match.
My opinion: nutmeg deserves a spot in everything. In baking. In cooking. In medicine. Especially freshly grated.
When you grow up connected to the Isle of Spice, the third largest exporter of nutmeg in the world, not putting nutmeg in everything should honestly be considered a crime. Was that a little too far?
Here’s why it matters: freshly grated nutmeg comes straight from the shell to the grater, keeping all of its essential oils and natural flavor intact. Ground nutmeg goes through drying, grinding, and packaging — and somewhere along that process, it loses the very thing that makes it special. Once you’ve baked with fresh nutmeg you’ll understand immediately why there’s no going back.
Coconut Makes Almost Everything Better
If adding coconut is an option, I’m considering it. Every time. Without apology.
How can you go wrong? Whether it’s baked in, folded into coconut tarts, stirred into ginger coconut cookies, used in johnny bakes, or swapped in as a milk substitute — coconut brings a nutty, distinctive flavor that adds depth and personality to almost any bake.
Take my coconut flake donuts from the Grenadian Flavors series. Toasting the coconut flakes took those donuts to a place I genuinely didn’t expect. They came out so good that one follower made them twice. Twice. You really cannot tell me coconut doesn’t make things better. The evidence is right there.
Homemade Beats Store-Bought. Most of the Time.
I love a good store-bought treat. I’m not going to pretend otherwise. But most of the time? Homemade is just better.
The fragrance filling the kitchen while something bakes. The quiet pride of saying “I made this.” Watching a bake come out better than you expected and then tasting it and realizing it actually is. That feeling is something a store-bought treat simply cannot give you.
And there’s the customization too — making it exactly the way you like it. More nutmeg. Less sugar. A little extra something that makes it yours.
I’ll be honest: sometimes I’ll order a dessert at a restaurant and sit there thinking, I could probably make this better. I know I’m not the only one.
Convenience wins sometimes, and that’s fine. But homemade has a kind of magic that’s genuinely hard to replicate. And I will defend that every time.
Caribbean Spices Shouldn’t Be Reserved for Christmas
You know how certain things only make an appearance at Christmas — the good plates, the special silverware, the black cake, the sorrel, the ginger beer? There’s something magical about those traditions. But I’ve always wondered: why do we save them for one season?
Nutmeg, cinnamon, cloves, ginger, almond essence — these aren’t just Christmas flavors. They’re Caribbean flavors. They belong year-round.
A hint of clove adds depth to a bake that’s asking for something more. Almond essence brings a complexity and boldness that makes a simple recipe feel elevated. These spices have stories in them. They carry culture and memory. And I refuse to limit that to December.
Use them freely. Use them often. Your bakes will thank you.
Every Family Thinks Their Recipe Is the Best
And honestly? That’s one of my favorite things about Caribbean food culture.
The debate over whose black cake is better. Whose banana bread is wicked. Whose oil down is made the real way. Whose sweet potato pudding actually hits. I promise every time one of these conversations comes up I am laughing quietly to myself — because everyone is completely convinced they’re right. And there’s something beautiful about that kind of loyalty to a recipe.
Then there’s the currant rolls debate. If you’ve spent any time around Grenadians and Trinidadians, you already know exactly what I’m talking about. Mention currants rolls and suddenly everybody becomes a food expert. One side is defending them with their whole chest. The other is wondering why they were invited in the first place.
Here’s the truth though: there usually is someone who makes one thing just a little better than everyone else. My aunt’s coconut tarts? I have not tasted one that compares. Until I find one that does, I’m only eating hers. And the cheesestraws from the lady we always order from for parties — obsessively good. The kind where it’s genuinely hard to stop at one.
I just like the best. And I’ll go to whoever makes it.
Tradition and Creativity Can Share the Same Kitchen
This might be my most strongly held opinion of all.
Tradition is not fragile. It doesn’t need to be protected from creativity — it’s strong enough to welcome it. The conversation between what’s always been done and what could be done next is where some of the most interesting baking happens.
My Grenadian Flavors series is built entirely on that belief. Taking the traditional flavors of Grenada and painting them onto modern canvases. Coconut flakes on a donut — toasted, because why not — turned into something I didn’t know was possible until I tried it. Nutmeg as the star of a sugar donut. Classic Caribbean flavors finding new forms.
And then there’s my Kumar recipe. Traditionally it calls for ginger in the syrup — and I respect that completely. But I added vanilla essence instead. It took the flavor somewhere that genuinely surprised me. Something familiar became something new without losing what made it worth making in the first place.
Recipes don’t stop living once they’re written down. They carry forward through the people who make them. And the people who make them; get to leave their mark.
One Opinion I’ll Happily Lose Friends Over: Mauby
Now, you might say “Chrissy, Mauby isn’t exactly baking.” And to that I say, “It’s Caribbean, so I’m counting it.”
I know Mauby has a loyal fan club. I know someone is already getting ready to tell me about the health benefits. I know someone is absolutely convinced I just haven’t had the right one.
Respectfully — this is a hill I’m willing to bake and stand on.
Unlike Mauby, my opinion isn’t getting watered down.
I’ve tried it sweet. I’ve tried it with spices. I’ve given it more chances than I care to admit. And every single time I arrive at the exact same conclusion:
It’s bitter. And I don’t want it.
No amount of sugar is changing my mind. You can keep the Mauby. I’ll happily take a cold glass of sorrel instead. Even ginger beer. Anything but Mauby.
I am fully prepared to lose friends over this one.
Now It’s Your Turn
Those are the Caribbean baking opinions I’m willing to defend every single time. Some are serious. Some are just for the love of the debate. But every one of them comes from the memories, the traditions, and the flavors that shaped me.
Food debates are practically a Caribbean tradition, and honestly…I hope they never stop.
Now I want to hear yours.
What’s one Caribbean food or baking opinion you’ll defend every time? Drop it in the comments.
No judgment.
Well.
Maybe a little bit.
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